Five to Thrive Pre-Schoolers

By the time your child is three years old, their brain is around 90% of its adult size. New connections are being made and strengthened all the time. Everything you do will shape your child’s brain and their view of the world around them. Children learn best when they feel safe, loved and relaxed.

You may have noticed that your child is becoming more and more adventurous, independent and able to tell you about their thoughts, feelings and ideas. They may be starting to play with other children (rather than alongside them) and this is very important for their social development.

Although your child may be widening their social circle, you are still their safe anchor. They might not need as many cuddles as when they were first born but it is still important that you engage with them on their learning adventures and that you respond to their individual needs.

You may wish that you had as much energy as your little one! A good way to let off steam is by being outdoors and having some active time every day. You won’t notice the noise or the mess when you are outside. Connecting with nature has many benefits for overall health and well-being for everyone. It’s easier for your child to relax when they have had the chance to burn off some energy.

When you encourage children to do things independently in their daily routines, such as helping to prepare food, dressing themselves, and blowing their nose, you are helping them to develop feelings of being capable. When children feel good inside, it helps them to manage their behaviour.

Play also provides rich opportunities for talking. Encouraging speech & language skills, independence, curiosity and a love of learning will all help your pre-schooler to be ready for school.

It might feel a bit early to be thinking about school at the moment, but we would encourage you to join our School Readiness Workshop if your child is 3+.